I originally was dead set on making my own ring bearer pillow for my wedding but all the DIY stuff was just over taking me so I opted to just buy a pillow and just customize it. When I saw this pillow I knew it was perfect. It has just the right amount of sparkle and it seems pretty sturdy and nice. I added the Mickey and Minnie buttons to give it some custom Disney flare for my themed wedding. The strap on the back is great so that my little ring bearer will be able to securely hold the pillow and the ribbon on the front should hold the rings safely since he really wants to hold the real diamonds on the day of the wedding. He's 7 so I think he can handle that and I believe the pillow will keep them secure.